As we commemorate 10 years the Lewis’ begin year 1

Stuart William Lewis, 43 years old and Karalee Lewis, 18 years old, both of American Fork, Utah, perished in a car accident in Tabiona, Utah, on November 25, 2010. According to the Salt Lake Tribune, the Lewis family was about 10 minutes away from their intended destination when their 18 year old daughter, who was driving, pulled out in front of a semi truck at the intersection of State Road 35 and State Road 208.
According to police, the driver was unable to avoid the crash and hit the driver’s side of the Oldsmobile Silhouette van the family was riding in. The two Lewis members, identified above, died at the scene of the crash. Other family members, Trudy Ann Lewis, 46, James Andrew Lewis, 15, and Abigail Lewis, 11 were injured, with the two children being flown to Primary Children’s Medical Center in critical and serious condition. All were reported to have been wearing their seatbelt.
As reported at ronkramerlaw
I can’t help but feel sad for this family, as my family and I have a unique perspective on this sort of tragedy. I want to help. I know I have readers out there. I wonder if we can’t do something to help this family out.
“Relatives have set up a fund at the Bank of American Fork called the Trudy Makin Lewis fund. Trudy is the mother/wife who was injured in the accident. I understand they are quite desperate financially, now that their bread-winner has died and especially in view of the enormous medical bills they are facing.” – John Hollenhorst KSL news.
You can donate to this fund at any Bank of American Fork. Just tell the person at the bank you would like to make a donation to the "Trudy Makin Lewis Fund."
I know that a similar fund was put in place for my family, and it helped a LOT! It is because people took time to help us out that we were able to accomplish as much as we were could. I ask with the most sincerity that I can muster, please help this family! If you live close by please find out what you can do to help them. I do not know if they are members of the LDS church, but please try to contact a bishop in American Fork and find out what you can do to help. Anything, from money, to meals, to thinking of you cards will help. This family desperately needs help, let’s give it to them.
I could not find a way to contribute to this fund online. I am in contact with KSL, so if they alert me to any news I will post it here. If anyone else can figure out how to contribute online please post it in the comments.

Coming up on 10 years since the first time my life was turned upside down

It was a typical Saturday before Thanksgiving. My siblings and I had gotten up early to watch cartoons with the idea that we would be enjoying a lazy day before Turkey Day. It was at this moment that the telephone began to ring. I answered it only to hear my grandmother hysterical on the other end. I could barely understand her, but I heard enough to know she wanted to talk to my mother. I had just turned 16 earlier that month, and the night before my grandparents had been over to celebrate a write of passage celebration in the LDS church. I was ordained as a Priest in the Aaronic priesthood. It had been a very special event. However, now that my grandmother was on the line in a hysteria my thoughts turned to concern for my grandfather. The truth of the situation was more serious than I had contemplated. I waited in the front room only loosely focused on the cartoons. When my mother came in and turned off the cartoons I didn’t even protest. I wanted to hear what was going on.

I couldn’t believe my ears when she broke the news. Earlier that morning my Aunt Nancy, and Uncle Keith had been travelling with their 5 children for Thanksgiving. They were trying to cross a dangerous highway in Texas, when suddenly everything went wrong. They began to cross the road when they realized that a semi-truck was speeding towards them. There was no avoiding the impact. Nancy was killed on contact. The rest of the family sustained major injuries and were taken to the hospital. Keith died the following day from injuries. All 5 of the kids, however, survived.

Immediately my parents sat us all down and explained the situation for us. The first question they asked us was if we would be willing to invite the 5 new orphans into our family as brothers and sisters? We all agreed readily, but I know that I had no idea what I was agreeing to. I had no idea that I had just agreed to turn my life completely upside down in a way that would change my life forever. Lest anyone thinks that I regret the way things have turned out, I wouldn’t trade this part of my life for anything. However, it has been the most difficult part of my life.

The first years were absolutely the hardest. There were physical injuries to deal with for most of the kids. The youngest sustained major head trauma and only lives today because of some amazing doctors at Primary Children’s Hospital. Two other kids had broken femur bones, and a broken wrist. Everyone had bad bruises. However, with the exception of the head injury, these injuries pale in comparison with the emotional trauma that all of us suffered. The obvious emotional issues were with the 5 kids who lost their parents. They were rudely yanked from their happy lives and made orphans in a split second. However, for me and my 5 siblings life was similarly difficult. In many ways the emotional issues that my family had were equally difficult to deal with.

Though the catalyst for change was painful, I am eternally grateful that I have had this experience. In the spirit of Thanksgiving, I want to take some time to highlight some reasons that I have to be grateful for events in the last 10 years.

First and fore most, I learned who my friends were. They were, and continue to be, a rock for me to lean on. In a time when I could have easily given up on God, and checked out of life, they reminded me that God is good and that life is a test. They told me that God obviously thought we were strong enough to handle this kind of adversity. I also learned a lot about dealing with unexpected changes in life. That experience has come in handy here recently as I’m going through a divorce.

I have loved having 11 children in my family! This comes in handy when you need someone to lean on, or want people to hang out with. There is never any shortage of activities to participate in. I love that we all get along so well because I have a huge network of friends that will be around for life!

I cannot believe that 10 years have gone by. In some ways it feels like just yesterday since “The Accident”, but in many ways it feels like forever ago. I can barely remember life before having 11 children in my family. It feels so right. I can’t imagine life without those kids in my family. I am so grateful for trials in my life. I am hopeful that my current trial will work out similarly for me. Hopefully in another 10 years I can look back and say some similar things about my divorce.